Thursday, 11 December 2008

FlIrTiNg TiPz FoR gUyZ; -Part two-

Some men and guyz flirt with women primarily to get sex. However, if you put aside that outcome and flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to different and much better opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover but if that doesn’t work out you could meet someone who becomes a good friend and who knows who she might introduce you to. You don’t have to douse yourself in after-shave, just take care of personal hygiene at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end up with dirty unwashed people!! (how true!!) Fine if it suits you but if you are looking for something else……Keep your options open always!
1.dont walk around a group of women: No woman wants to feel like second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You look like a loser and the women may think you are desperate – any port in a storm Even if you are, don’t show it.

2. Instead of saying something, whisper in her ear so nobody can hear. This will make her feel special and is also a massive turn on!
3. girls NEVER ask the guy out, so DONT even expect them to.
4.Concentrate on your conversation, not getting a date at the first time you meet her. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort to get to know her before diving in for a date. this will really help.
5.Giving compliments: There is nothing more than a compliment that turns on a girl. but remember, there’s nothing worse than someone giving out a load of overblown lines. Everyone has something great about them, notice that and compliment them genuinely.

6.Your self respect: Women always fall for men who are that little bit unreachable. Don't hover or grovel or be desperate. Think of yourself as special and know what you deserve.
7.Be a good listener: girls would feel appreciated and special if you listen to them. if you think the subject is boring, you can always change the conversation, but dont interrupt.
8.Asking for phone numbers and migg adds: Flirting and meeting people is NOT about trophy hunting it is about making new connections and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call or chat. If you asked for it,
use it. There's someoen out there expecting one!

9.Dont touch! Some women have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified by it. Respect the person until you have sussed out more about her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and NOT touching, until you know more. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions then moving back a little to remove the threat. (it works...!! )

10.Dont ask personal questions: NEVER!!! and i mean never ask crazy personal questions like r u a virgin........ that makes girls feel uncomfortably and they will mostly get mad.. ..

11.Simply engage in small talk and gradually talk about more... let's just say... large things. Then once you have a good friendship, ask her out. 13. being truly yourself: It’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t YET sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. :)

Remember flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!

Wednesday, 10 December 2008

Sky ShOwS & mOrE......

On the 1st of December 2008, Beaming through the twilight is one of the prettiest things you'll ever see--a tight three-way conjunction of Venus, Jupiter and the crescent Moon. The lucky Maldivians have witnessed a “smiley face” that night. Apparently this won’t happen again until July 21st 2036! And there’s more. This year’s last Full Moon on December 12 in Gemini. It's going to be a Grand Cross, which means when four planets are squaring each other. This full moon falls in Gemini, so all the Mutable Signs (Virgo, Gemini, Pisces, and Sagittarius) will feel the effects strongly say some people. Once more, there sure will be a sky show…. And be sure you are out with your camera!

Tuesday, 9 December 2008

I'v beEn taGgeD!!

Lemonade Award

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Saturday, 22 November 2008

FlIrTiNg TiPz FoR gUrLz; -Part one-

Flirting is more than just having fun; it is an essential aspect of human interaction. It is found in all cultures and societies around the world. It is a basic instinct and part of human nature. Come to think of it, if we are not attracted to the members of the opposite sex, we will not reproduce and human species will become extinct. [HAHAHAHAHA!] Flirting, the capacity to automatically turn our actions into sexual apparatus signaling interest with the opposite sex as instinctively as mice twitch their noses and tilt their backs to draw in the object of their attention.Flirting also is ruled by a set of unwritten laws of etiquette. This will tell when, where, with whom and with what manner we should flirt. So if ever you are wondering if you can master the art of flirting, of course you can, everyone, anyone can do it….
Some girls tend to be shy and hide their opinions towards the guy she truly desires. But believe me, you got to do some flirting, you just cant stay and watch your guy date another girl. Here are some good flirting tips for ladies, girls or even teen girls. I have included teen girls because we basically start flirting during our teen years.

1. Be yourself: Everyone is different. No one has to fit into someone else’s idea of what it means to be a ‘real woman’. The only standard you need to live up to is the one you set for yourself. If you like yourself, you’ll be looking for someone who will also like you just the way you are. Be true to yourself. You will not enjoy any moment of it if you are playing somebody who you're not supposed to be, stay focused and be proud of who you are.

2. Get out there!: A lot of people are asking and even whining that they have never met anyone only to find out that they spend most of their time crouching in the sofa with a romantic movie and a pack of popcorn. Hey! Wake up, people will not just knock on your front door to meet you, you have to go out and be the one to meet them.

3. Respect: Be interesting by also being interested with them. If you want them to communicate, LISTEN! People like people who would listen to them when it's their time to talk. Remember, listening is a part of good communication.

4. Express yourself: Let them know or feel that you are interested with them. Someone has to make the first move and the simplest and safest way to do that is to SMILE! It's a nice way of telling that you are interested without being so hanky.

5. Eye contact: There should be repeated contact. Eye contact is very important; it tells that you are sincere. On your first, he will make sure that it is really him that you are flirting with. With your second, he knows it's him and is all giddy about it and on your third, he might be going over to your table now, you should express interest by introducing yourself and starting a conversation.

6. Whisper: This usually gets their attention. Believe me, it really does. Avoid shouting.

7. Don't stay in a group: If you really want to attract a guy, don’t stay in a group because no man can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.

8. Be polite: If you are not interested, be polite. You can always refer him to one of the girls. At least, you can practice your confidence in meeting other people and you just met a potential friend! :D

9. Be careful with your words: Give clear signals that you are not just making fun out of it. Make sure to check your choice of words too, your flirting might sound a little sexual instead of a friendly flirting.

10. Be positive: People like to be with people who are cheerful and has a positive mindset. Feel good about yourself and everyone, and they will feel good about you.

11. Getting help from friends: This is used a lot by female groups going to parties. Although not very effective, try walking through a group of men and let one of your friends check out who is eyeing on you.

12. Your accessories: Always gives them a reason to talk to you. If you would like to meet people, you have to make sure that you have something. Wearing or bringing something that can catch their attention. Carrying something that you are interested with is a good point. The conversation can start from there.

13. Set your boundaries: Know what you want and what you don’t want. If you ever feel uncomfortable with a guy, change the situation. Move to another room, find your friends, leave the party or call your parents or guardian. It doesn’t mean you are not cool.

If you have already opened your mind to the basic tips on flirting, then you can plan where to do the flirting tips above. There are several places where you can start practicing how to flirt with guys. Great places to start flirting with guys are parties (social occasions, functions or celebrations), drinking places, learning places, workplace, participant sports / hobbies and spectator events. You can do it anywhere. Go Flirt! :P

It will never be again.....

I looked back hoping
to see him Still waiting there
but I was wrong
he too turned around
and walked away
now it was me

and only me
I looked at my cell phone

And saw his last words,
A text message;
“it’ll never be….”

Tuesday, 11 November 2008

Its only you..

I thought I’d write all I wanted
And spill my entire heart out
But suddenly my hand turned cold
Shivers ran through my spine
I couldn’t remember anything
I intended to write
I looked around me
It was dark and I was alone
Only the thoughts of you
Was what I remembered
It was your name
And it was only you….

When i first met you...

When I first met you,
I was scared to love you.
I couldn’t believe I could fall for someone so fast
Is this really love or just another stupid crush?
I’m scared to love you and then get my heart broken.
I want to believe you when you say
you care about me and always will.
I want to believe that you really do love me.
I just don’t ant to end up getting hurt,
I don’t think I could handle losing you.
You say that you would never hurt me,
You say you love me way too much.
N I don’t know how much you do…
Whatever it is I’ll always love you
No matter what

.....$hOuLd i ????

Every time I hear your voice,
My heart beats just a little faster.
Whenever I am sad or lonely,
I know you’ll always be there.
No matter how badly I am feeling,
You can always make me smile.
It feels good to have someone,
Who might actually care about me.
I still don’t know if I should believe you
when you say you love me....

Tuesday, 4 November 2008

i KnEw He WuD nEvEr Be...

I knew he wouldn’t be mine,
& I knew there was no harm
In loving him either….
I wouldn’t mind him dating another
All I wanted was to be
Someone very special for him
I couldn’t tell when he hurts me
With his jokes & pranks
Instead I smile at him to
Show him I had fun and I enjoyed
I couldn’t tell what I felt for him,
Cuz he might not like me anymore
When I found out he liked my best friend
My eyes filled with hot tears
I couldn’t tell him how I really felt,
But I wished that someday,
He would tell me something
I’ve been waiting for….

at night...

Sumetimes late @ night
I lie awake & watch him sleep
he's lost in peaceful dreams
So I turn out the lights and lay there in the dark
& the thought crosses my mind
If I never wake up in the morning
wud he ever doubt the way I feel
Abt him in my heart
If tomorrow never comes
Will he know how much I luvd him
Did I try in every way to show him every day
That he's my only one
If tomorrow never comes
'Cause I've lost loved ones in my life
Who never knew how much I loved them
Now I live with the regret
That my true feelings for them never were revealed
So I made a promise to myself
To say each day how much he means to me
And avoid that circumstance
Where there's no 2nd chance to tell him how I feel
If tomorrow never comes
So tell that someone that you love
Just what you're thinking of

Tuesday, 14 October 2008

20 things a gurl shud remember about guyz!

1. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

2. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

3. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

4. Don’t talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

5. Guys get jealous easily.

6. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh...never mind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

7. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

8. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

9. Guys will brag about anything.

10. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy’s confused, then we’re all confused.

11. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

12. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it.

13. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you’re with your boyfriend, he’s probably jealous and likes you.

14. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.

15. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

16. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

17. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.

18. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of them.

19. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to. It may not seem right but trust me

20. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

Monday, 13 October 2008

Fun Facts......

The strongest muscle in the body is the tongue.

A goldfish has a memory span of three seconds!

there are 206 bones in the adault human body and 300 in children

Your dream can only last 6 seconds!!

Starfish don't have brains.

Polar bears are left handed.

Months that begin on a Sunday will always have a "Friday the 13th."

men get hiccups more than women

Most lipstick contains fish scales.

Donald Duck comics were banned from Finland because he doesn't wear trousers.

The world's youngest parents were 8 and 9 and lived in China in 1910.

A rat can last longer without water than a camel.

Coca Cola was originally green!!

The average person falls asleep in seven minutes!

Your stomach has to produce a new layer of mucus every two weeks otherwise it will digest itself.

Butterflies taste with their feet.

A person cannot taste food unless it is mixed with saliva.
For example, if strong-tasting substance like salt is placed on a dry tongue,
the taste buds will not be able to taste it. As soon as a drop of saliva is added
and the salt is dissolved, however, a definite taste sensation results.
This is true for all foods. Try it!

Wednesday, 8 October 2008

...HoW dId He??

BAM! Something cold hit me at the back of my neck. I let out a loud scream.

A snowball; someone had thrown a snowball at me. I reached behind my
head and tried to scoop as much of the snow as I could out from the back of
my jacket. I cringed as some of it touched my skin. I frowned slightly and
whipped my head around.

I saw a boy that couldn’t be much older than I, laughing and pointing at me.

I glowered at him, but his laughter continued.

I took a deep breath, forcing myself to calm down. It was the day of my
eighth birthday and my parents let me go out and play in the front yard all
by myself.

I was NOT going to let some stupid boy ruin it. So I turned back around and
continued to work on my snowman. BAM!

I turned around again; this time, he was rolling in the snow, laughing so
hard that his pale face was turning slightly red.

“Well, since he seems to enjoy the snow so much, I should just help him out.”

I picked up a large snowball intended for my snowman’s head and walked in
his direction until I stood over him.

I waited until he stopped laughing hard enough to open his eyes and see
what I intended to do. They were bluish-grey, his eyes I remember this
because of how wide they got when they saw me with the snowball.

His wide eyes quickly turned to slits. “You can’t do that!” he said to me.

“Why not?” I said back.

“Because you’re a girl and girls can’t—”

He couldn’t finish his sentence, on account of the fact that it’s pretty hard to
talk with a mouthful of snow.

It was my turn to laugh and point.

And that’s what I did, at least until he got up wiped the snow of off his face.

He didn’t look so happy.

I took a step back knowing that if I stayed, it wouldn’t end well for me. But
then he took one forward, and another, another. We both froze for a
second, seeing this as my only chance of escape, I broke into a sprint but
didn’t I get very far.

I let out a high pitched shriek as he tackled me to the ground.

“Stupid boots...” I muttered.

He tried to get me flat on the ground, but I wasn’t about to let him beat me,
so I fought back. We wrestled for about a minute before I finally pinned
down. I looked down at him.

The messy mop of curly black hair he had on his head was even messier. A stray curl fell across his eye and a smug smile appeared on his face.

“I let you win you know.”

I shrugged. It was probably true. But I didn’t care. I had still won.

“Now get off me.” He said.

“No.” I simply replied.

“But you have to.”

“And why is that?”

“Because I’m ten and you’re eight. I’m older by two whole years so you
have to do what I say.”

“No.” I said again.

He frowned for a second. But then smiled again. “How about this, if I get
you off of me in the next… fifteen seconds, I win, if I don’t you win. Okay?”

I thought about it. He could get me off of him no doubt, but in the next fifteen seconds? I’m a girl but I’m not weak.

“Fine.” I replied. “Fifteen seconds, that’s it.”

His smile grew even bigger. I frowned a little, slightly suspicious, but I
started counting anyway.

He didn’t make a move.

“Two. Three...”

Still, nothing

“Four, five, six…”

He opened his mouth to say something, but then he closed it again.

“Seven, eight, nine…”

His face began to turn red.

“Ten, eleven, twelve…”

Why was he blushing?


Then suddenly, lightning quick, he shot his had up, grabbed the back of my
neck, pulled my face down, and kissed me.

I lost count.

I could feel my face heating up as I stared at him, shocked. I expected him
to push me, pinch me, maybe even punch me. But kiss? Now that was unexpected.

“Rayne…?” he started.

I just stared.

This seemed to amuse him because that smug smile of his reappeared. But
then his face got very serious.

“Rayne,” he continued “When we’re older, were gonna get married you and
me. Okay? We have to.”

I couldn’t do anything, I just nodded.

He smiled in what seemed to be satisfaction and lifted me up enough so
that he could get out from under me.

He got up, waved down at me, and walked away.

I’m not exactly sure how long I was there for, sitting out in the snow. It had
to have been at least twenty minutes before my dad called me to come
inside.It wasn’t until I had actually gotten inside that I suddenly froze. My breathing increased slightly and my eyes widened in realization of something. I am sure I had never seen that boy before, but yet…

How did he know my name?