Thursday, 11 December 2008

FlIrTiNg TiPz FoR gUyZ; -Part two-

Some men and guyz flirt with women primarily to get sex. However, if you put aside that outcome and flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to different and much better opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover but if that doesn’t work out you could meet someone who becomes a good friend and who knows who she might introduce you to. You don’t have to douse yourself in after-shave, just take care of personal hygiene at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end up with dirty unwashed people!! (how true!!) Fine if it suits you but if you are looking for something else……Keep your options open always!
1.dont walk around a group of women: No woman wants to feel like second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You look like a loser and the women may think you are desperate – any port in a storm Even if you are, don’t show it.

2. Instead of saying something, whisper in her ear so nobody can hear. This will make her feel special and is also a massive turn on!
3. girls NEVER ask the guy out, so DONT even expect them to.
4.Concentrate on your conversation, not getting a date at the first time you meet her. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort to get to know her before diving in for a date. this will really help.
5.Giving compliments: There is nothing more than a compliment that turns on a girl. but remember, there’s nothing worse than someone giving out a load of overblown lines. Everyone has something great about them, notice that and compliment them genuinely.

6.Your self respect: Women always fall for men who are that little bit unreachable. Don't hover or grovel or be desperate. Think of yourself as special and know what you deserve.
7.Be a good listener: girls would feel appreciated and special if you listen to them. if you think the subject is boring, you can always change the conversation, but dont interrupt.
8.Asking for phone numbers and migg adds: Flirting and meeting people is NOT about trophy hunting it is about making new connections and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call or chat. If you asked for it,
use it. There's someoen out there expecting one!

9.Dont touch! Some women have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified by it. Respect the person until you have sussed out more about her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and NOT touching, until you know more. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions then moving back a little to remove the threat. (it works...!! )

10.Dont ask personal questions: NEVER!!! and i mean never ask crazy personal questions like r u a virgin........ that makes girls feel uncomfortably and they will mostly get mad.. ..

11.Simply engage in small talk and gradually talk about more... let's just say... large things. Then once you have a good friendship, ask her out. 13. being truly yourself: It’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t YET sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. :)

Remember flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!


pOmPi said...

nice peice of advice u got there posted.. *thumbs up*

ming su said...

deserves a round applause...

kaiza shozey said...

if this is something of your own then cheers.

bluebooze said...

very cool :)