FlIrTiNg TiPz FoR gUyZ; -Part two-

Some men and guyz flirt with women primarily to get sex. However, if you put aside that outcome and flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to different and much better opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover but if that doesn’t work out you could meet someone who becomes a good friend and who knows who she might introduce you to. You don’t have to douse yourself in after-shave, just take care of personal hygiene at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end up with dirty unwashed people!! (how true!!) Fine if it suits you but if you are looking for something else……Keep your options open always!
1.dont walk around a group of women: No woman wants to feel like second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You look like a loser and the women may think you are desperate – any port in a storm Even if you are, don’t show it. ☺
2. Instead of saying something, whisper in her ear so nobody can hear. This will make her feel special and is also a massive turn on!
3. girls NEVER ask the guy out, so DONT even expect them to.
4.Concentrate on your conversation, not getting a date at the first time you meet her. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort to get to know her before diving in for a date. this will really help.
5.Giving compliments: There is nothing more than a compliment that turns on a girl. but remember, there’s nothing worse than someone giving out a load of overblown lines. Everyone has something great about them, notice that and compliment them genuinely.
6.Your self respect: Women always fall for men who are that little bit unreachable. Don't hover or grovel or be desperate. Think of yourself as special and know what you deserve.
7.Be a good listener: girls would feel appreciated and special if you listen to them. if you think the subject is boring, you can always change the conversation, but dont interrupt.
8.Asking for phone numbers and migg adds: Flirting and meeting people is NOT about trophy hunting it is about making new connections and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call or chat. If you asked for it, use it. There's someoen out there expecting one!
9.Dont touch! Some women have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified by it. Respect the person until you have sussed out more about her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and NOT touching, until you know more. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions then moving back a little to remove the threat. (it works...!! ☺)
10.Dont ask personal questions: NEVER!!! and i mean never ask crazy personal questions like r u a virgin........ that makes girls feel uncomfortably and they will mostly get mad.. ..
11.Simply engage in small talk and gradually talk about more... let's just say... large things. Then once you have a good friendship, ask her out. 13. being truly yourself: It’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t YET sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. :)

Remember flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun! ☻

Sky ShOwS & mOrE......

On the 1^st of December 2008, Beaming through the twilight is one of the prettiest things you'll ever see--a tight three-way conjunction of Venus, Jupiter and the crescent Moon. The lucky Maldivians have witnessed a “smiley face” that night. Apparently this won’t happen again until July 21st 2036! And there’s more. This year’s last Full Moon on December 12 in Gemini. It's going to be a Grand Cross, which means when four planets are squaring each other. This full moon falls in Gemini, so all the Mutable Signs (Virgo, Gemini, Pisces, and Sagittarius) will feel the effects strongly say some people. Once more, there sure will be a sky show…. And be sure you are out with your camera!

I'v beEn taGgeD!!

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FlIrTiNg TiPz FoR gUrLz; -Part one-

Flirting is more than just having fun; it is an essential aspect of human interaction. It is found in all cultures and societies around the world. It is a basic instinct and part of human nature. Come to think of it, if we are not attracted to the members of the opposite sex, we will not reproduce and human species will become extinct. [HAHAHAHAHA!] Flirting, the capacity to automatically turn our actions into sexual apparatus signaling interest with the opposite sex as instinctively as mice twitch their noses and tilt their backs to draw in the object of their attention.Flirting also is ruled by a set of unwritten laws of etiquette. This will tell when, where, with whom and with what manner we should flirt. So if ever you are wondering if you can master the art of flirting, of course you can, everyone, anyone can do it….

Some girls tend to be shy and hide their opinions towards the guy she truly desires. But believe me, you got to do some flirting, you just cant stay and watch your guy date another girl. Here are some good flirting tips for ladies, girls or even teen girls. I have included teen girls because we basically start flirting during our teen years.

1. Be yourself: Everyone is different. No one has to fit into someone else’s idea of what it means to be a ‘real woman’. The only standard you need to live up to is the one you set for yourself. If you like yourself, you’ll be looking for someone who will also like you just the way you are. Be true to yourself. You will not enjoy any moment of it if you are playing somebody who you're not supposed to be, stay focused and be proud of who you are.

2. Get out there!: A lot of people are asking and even whining that they have never met anyone only to find out that they spend most of their time crouching in the sofa with a romantic movie and a pack of popcorn. Hey! Wake up, people will not just knock on your front door to meet you, you have to go out and be the one to meet them.

3. Respect: Be interesting by also being interested with them. If you want them to communicate, LISTEN! People like people who would listen to them when it's their time to talk. Remember, listening is a part of good communication.

4. Express yourself: Let them know or feel that you are interested with them. Someone has to make the first move and the simplest and safest way to do that is to SMILE! It's a nice way of telling that you are interested without being so hanky.

5. Eye contact: There should be repeated contact. Eye contact is very important; it tells that you are sincere. On your first, he will make sure that it is really him that you are flirting with. With your second, he knows it's him and is all giddy about it and on your third, he might be going over to your table now, you should express interest by introducing yourself and starting a conversation.

6. Whisper: This usually gets their attention. Believe me, it really does. Avoid shouting.

7. Don't stay in a group: If you really want to attract a guy, don’t stay in a group because no man can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.

8. Be polite: If you are not interested, be polite. You can always refer him to one of the girls. At least, you can practice your confidence in meeting other people and you just met a potential friend! :D

9. Be careful with your words: Give clear signals that you are not just making fun out of it. Make sure to check your choice of words too, your flirting might sound a little sexual instead of a friendly flirting.

10. Be positive: People like to be with people who are cheerful and has a positive mindset. Feel good about yourself and everyone, and they will feel good about you.

11. Getting help from friends: This is used a lot by female groups going to parties. Although not very effective, try walking through a group of men and let one of your friends check out who is eyeing on you.

12. Your accessories: Always gives them a reason to talk to you. If you would like to meet people, you have to make sure that you have something. Wearing or bringing something that can catch their attention. Carrying something that you are interested with is a good point. The conversation can start from there.

13. Set your boundaries: Know what you want and what you don’t want. If you ever feel uncomfortable with a guy, change the situation. Move to another room, find your friends, leave the party or call your parents or guardian. It doesn’t mean you are not cool.

If you have already opened your mind to the basic tips on flirting, then you can plan where to do the flirting tips above. There are several places where you can start practicing how to flirt with guys. Great places to start flirting with guys are parties (social occasions, functions or celebrations), drinking places, learning places, workplace, participant sports / hobbies and spectator events. You can do it anywhere. Go Flirt! :P

It will never be again.....

I looked back hoping
to see him Still waiting there
but I was wrong he too turned around
and walked away
now it was me
and only me
I looked at my cell phone
And saw his last words,
A text message;
“it’ll never be….”

Its only you..

I thought I’d write all I wanted

And spill my entire heart out
But suddenly my hand turned cold
Shivers ran through my spine
I couldn’t remember anything
I intended to write
I looked around me
It was dark and I was alone
Only the thoughts of you
Was what I remembered
It was your name
And it was only you….

When i first met you...

When I first met you,

I was scared to love you.
I couldn’t believe I could fall for someone so fast
Is this really love or just another stupid crush?
I’m scared to love you and then get my heart broken.
I want to believe you when you say
you care about me and always will.
I want to believe that you really do love me.
I just don’t ant to end up getting hurt,
I don’t think I could handle losing you.
You say that you would never hurt me,
You say you love me way too much.
N I don’t know how much you do…
Whatever it is I’ll always love you
No matter what

.....$hOuLd i ????

Every time I hear your voice,

My heart beats just a little faster.
Whenever I am sad or lonely,
I know you’ll always be there.
No matter how badly I am feeling,
You can always make me smile.
It feels good to have someone,
Who might actually care about me.
I still don’t know if I should believe you
when you say you love me....

i KnEw He WuD nEvEr Be...

I knew he wouldn’t be mine,
& I knew there was no harm
In loving him either….
I wouldn’t mind him dating another
All I wanted was to be
Someone very special for him
I couldn’t tell when he hurts me
With his jokes & pranks
Instead I smile at him to
Show him I had fun and I enjoyed
I couldn’t tell what I felt for him,
Cuz he might not like me anymore
When I found out he liked my best friend
My eyes filled with hot tears
I couldn’t tell him how I really felt,
But I wished that someday,
He would tell me something
I’ve been waiting for….

at night...

Sumetimes late @ night
I lie awake & watch him sleep
he's lost in peaceful dreams
So I turn out the lights and lay there in the dark
& the thought crosses my mind
If I never wake up in the morning
wud he ever doubt the way I feel
Abt him in my heart
If tomorrow never comes
Will he know how much I luvd him
Did I try in every way to show him every day
That he's my only one
If tomorrow never comes
'Cause I've lost loved ones in my life
Who never knew how much I loved them
Now I live with the regret
That my true feelings for them never were revealed
So I made a promise to myself
To say each day how much he means to me
And avoid that circumstance
Where there's no 2nd chance to tell him how I feel
If tomorrow never comes
So tell that someone that you love
Just what you're thinking of